Educational issues
When parenting issues become a burden
Children need support, guidance and rules - as well as love, patience and understanding. But what do you do when the tried and tested methods suddenly no longer work? When the child is always defiant, conflicts in the family escalate or siblings are constantly arguing? These situations are normal - and there are solutions.
Signs that counseling can help
- Constant conflicts with the child: When discussions and arguments about rules, media use or homework become a constant burden.
- Uncertainty about parenting issues: Parents often wonder whether they are "doing everything right" - for example, when introducing rules, punishments or rewards.
- Difficulties with behavioral problems: When children react aggressively, extremely shy or very anxiously, parents are often at a loss.
- Overload in everyday life: If you feel overburdened as a parent, you may need support - be it with childcare, parenting issues or self-care.
- Changes in the family: Separations, relocations or new partners turn family life upside down - especially for children.
What you can do now
When parenting issues become a burden, it's worth pausing and taking a fresh look at the situation. In a parenting consultation, you can talk openly about the challenges you face in everyday life - without judgment or blame. Counsellors listen, ask questions and help you to identify the causes of the problems. They will show you how to introduce new rules, set boundaries and at the same time strengthen understanding for your child. Counselling also offers help with major changes, such as separation or relocation, in order to provide children with good support during this time.
Finding support: What help is available?
There are many contact points that offer support to parents, single parents and families - from personal advice to courses and group offers.
Counselling centers for parents and guardians
- Parenting advice centers: These centres specialize in helping parents clarify parenting issues. You can talk to them free of charge and anonymously - in person or online.
- Family counseling centers: If the entire family is affected by a conflict (e.g. separation or new family constellations), family counseling centers can provide targeted help.
- Youth welfare offices: Youth welfare offices also offer advice on parenting issues. They are the first port of call when it comes to care, support in everyday life or protecting the welfare of the child.
Counseling content: What does parenting advice help with?
- Setting rules and boundaries: How do parents manage to introduce clear rules without constantly getting into conflict?
- Dealing with difficult phases: Defiant phase, puberty or behavioral problems - every developmental phase brings new challenges.
- Support during separation or loss: When the family breaks up, children need special attention and support.
- Strengthening the parent-child bond: Counselors:inside show how parents can strengthen emotional closeness with their children - even in stressful situations.
Group offers and courses
- Parenting courses: special courses such as "Strong parents - strong children" teach parents strategies for better communication with children.
- Support groups: Valuable exchanges take place in groups of parents with similar challenges. Many realize: "I'm not alone with my problems."
- Online counselling and video chats: Many counselling centres offer anonymous online counselling. This allows parents to get in touch quickly and easily - without long waiting times.
Frequently asked questions about advice on parenting issues
If you are unsure how to deal with certain behaviors of your child, if there are frequent conflicts or if you feel overwhelmed, counseling can help. Family and educational counseling centers can help you find solutions and provide your child with the best possible support.
Describe your situation in a confidential conversation. The advisors will help you to understand the background and develop practical tips for everyday life. Depending on your needs, there are one-to-one sessions, parenting courses or even consultations with the whole family.
Yes, many family advice centers offer targeted support for single parents, e.g. on the topics of parenting, financial help or balancing work and family life. You can also find opportunities to talk to other parents there.
Counseling centers help to develop clear and at the same time understanding parenting strategies. The problem often lies in communication or a lack of consequences. In counseling, you will learn how to set boundaries and strengthen your relationship with your child.
Let us advise you now!
Parenting issues are part of everyday life - but you don't have to solve them alone. Advice centers, parenting courses and online advice can help you strengthen your parenting role and take the pressure off everyday family life. Get started now and get support!